Monday, June 30, 2014

Freedom vs. Control.


In lieu of the 4th of July I wanted to talk about FREEDOM! This is a short post. Many people think that long lengthy posts are the absolute best. They just have so much great information!..... Well as much as I like to talk, I like to keep some things short and sweet. Straight to the point.

Most people like to be in control. We don't normally like to just hand our lives over to someone else. It's not a natural feeling to feel OUT of control. We like to decide what we are going to do, when we are going to do it, and HOW we will do it. "BE IN CONTROL" is what our inner man screams at us. 

Now the Bible says... where the Spirit of the Lord is there is FREEDOM. How can we experience full freedom if we cannot let go of control? 

free·dom:

the quality or state of being exempt or released usually from something onerous 

By experiencing God's freedom we actually have the ability to be released from something burdensome, difficult, hard, etc... THAT IS AWESOME! So many times we are in control of our lives but it's actually causing our life to be OUT of control. Let his Spirit give you FREEDOM! Don't do life alone. 




Headband $7 ThePetiteHarper

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Church Girls.


What is a Church Girl? Some would say... a girl who goes to church. Ya, I guess that could constitute as a Church Girl. But it goes further than that.

My whole life I grew up in church. I grew up being at the church pretty much most every day of the week. When I would watch TV shows or movies that would have "churchy" people in them I could never relate. I didn't wear long skirts, I didn't have long hair, I dyed my hair, I wore makeup, I LOVED fashion, short shorts & tanks, and I was NEVER considered the quiet conservative one. That always had me wondering... why are churchy people portrayed different in the media?

A few years back I was able to host a TV show called "Church Girls." The show was about youthful, driven, successful, and motivated women who have an active relationship with God and are deeply committed to the local church. The premise of the show was to demonstrate that you can live in the world and not be swayed by the things of the world. We were normal girls living normal lives, and are passionately in love with the Lord.

That is a Church Girl. I want girls to know there is more to life than seeking the attention of boys. There is more to life than dressing sexy and trying to get people to look places well... that they shouldn't be looking. There is more to life than drinking so you can have a good time. There is a life out there that is SO MUCH FUN and includes having an active relationship with The Lord! 

I always hear young adult girls say "but how do I have fun when hanging around a bunch of church people? Well... maybe you have only seen the church girls portrayed in the media. Give God a chance! Give church a chance. Give Christian living a chance! I promise... you can have fun, dress fashionable, be outspoken, loud, chaotic, crazy, successful, popular, & have the time of your life while still serving God and pursuing His plans for you.

Don't think the mistakes of the past will hold you back. Don't think that in order to be a Church Girl you had to grow up perfect and you never make mistakes. A Church Girl understands that we will have struggles, we won't be perfect, & we will have temptations BUT... we have a family, at church, waiting to help us through. We will have a family, at church, who will continue to speak life in our lives and remind us of the awesome plans God has for us. We have a family to be a part of that is so in love with God.

Be in love with God. Live in the world but make a difference in the world. Be a Church Girl! 


Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Summer Lovin


So I am trying a little something different. I love clothes and getting great deals so I thought I would share a few of my favorites with you! I love summer. The sun, the warm summer nights, ice cream, volleyball, jumping in the lake, 412 summer events, and of course… summer clothes. With the love of clothes, I find myself having a battle in my mind of “to buy or not to buy.” I love clothes but I don’t love pricey clothes. I love to shop but I don’t love spending all of my money of clothes. So here are a couple of my summer must haves. All under $40. 









Headband $8 Tilly
Sandals $30 Target
Bells $40 Tilly's
Sunnies $10 Tilly's